A soul mate is really your other half and one of the reasons why the idea of soulmates really do work and everybody's looking for it cause that's the person that will compromise with you.
However, your soul mate is there for everything and for you and will go the distance with you, meaning: they are there to cover the booty call too cause once you start denying the person that has the emotional package, you're losing that soul mate by not sharing the love which only means that you're denying that person. But what's nice about your soul mate even in a sexual level, people may think of size and what they think is fulfilling to where in reality, the only fulfillment which is the completion of the imangenary sexual fantasies already with your soul mate, but yet you take it to someone else who has to experiment on who you actually are when the person you actually open up to that is there for you in every way is actually hurting when you actually place an order in his imageinary mind that got himself all packaged up just for you that you won't sign for the delivery. So if, you're an emotional wreck, congratulations, cause you went elsewhere like someone else so that's what you chose and wanted.
Peoples soul mates are always there, but don't really want it cause god always supplies it for you, but you'd rather chase someone else that's not emotionally there for you. Now, some women do not feel like a woman unless they can use their power of persuasion and seduction. For example: A woman may ask a man, can you go somewhere with them and tries to butter that person up even if they say no, which is dead wrong.
Now the power of seduction: Is that feeling that they don't feel like a woman by not being able to over power their man and she'll simply say, I can't persuade my man or seduce him and he just took the power away and won't like it if he's doing these things that he used to do with you and doing it with someone else. But she may also reward the man that makes her feel good.
Know this: Soul mates is all kinds of everything and it outlasts the person. Now with everything and every relationship is like a diamond in a rough and your soul mate will go there with you as far as surprising you with different things. Newsflash: If you can't handle something, then you're really not in the position to keep it. Nobody can steal your mate unless your mate is made available to them.
For example: If you put your 60"LG Flatscreen HD ten" 80B outside to the curb, you tell me how long it's going to stay there. Now, do you have the nerve to go down the block and tell someone that they stole your TV, cause last time I checked, that's called ignorance, so who's telling who lies. One other thing about soul mates is that is the word soul is all about the essence of what you are spiritually, emotionally, and being above the physical whether you believe in god or not and can't even say you have soul if you don't believe in god, so think of the soul as a Mac Computer that can only be controlled by the Mac Software and the entail needs their files to function, now what I'm getting at is your soul mate knows whether you're a Dell or a Mac and he will never input the wrong software cause your soul mate actually will and wish for you an optimum performance and functioning that wants to see you apply all of your applications with full usage cause the more that you're alive, your soulmate is just as exhilirating that shouldn't be that hard to see cause actions and attitudes speaks louder than words which is science that 90% of communication is non verbal, so ladies and gentlemen when that person next to you is giving you the cold shoulder instead of a warm heart, please do not let anyone hear you ignoranlty say things like, "we don't communicate", because a true soul mate is the person that invests their time and devotion to understand you because your soul mate doesn't dictate your life to you.
For instance: he or she already knows what you like and don't like to eat. It's all about paying attention and your soul mate should not criticize what you like and don't like. Although, your soul mate should always back you up at all times and is always on your side because soul bonding is letting you know the love that they have deep down inside and what they have with you, they're still on your side and is never celf centered no matter what the situation and still show love and even if you're far away, they know that you have them and always comes through for you. Although, your soul always tells you what you have in your corner by doing the simple little things like giving you a massage without even asking for one, but doing it out of the kindness of their heart. Man, if someone is really there for me when I need them, I will consider that to be very considerate on their end because if someone really loves you like they say they do, you'll really know by them showing their consideration towards you menaing the little things, such as making tea for you just the way you like it and giving you a massage when you need one.
I think god created soul mates for all of us to have in order for us to be happy. Now, isn't it nice to be loved and treated right without having to ask and also being understood and without having to ask and also being understood without having to explain yourself and furthermore, you're always right with your soul mate and they love you cause you are them and they are you cause they really love you.
Now that's the meaning of a soul mate!
So when it comes to soul mates: Do you really know who that person really is when they're staring you right in your face.
About the Author:
Newly published author/writer. A new writer of urban tales and fiction. My first book will be out this summer of 2008.